Tuesday, 31 March 2009

  • Southern Hospitality is Not Just a Myth!

    After spending a week in the south, I've decided that "southern hospitality" is not just a myth, or something that you see in the movies.  In fact, southern hospitality is the number one reason why I love the south so much more now.

    From opening doors to pulling out chairs, the strangers in the south are just generally kinder than the strangers I've encountered in the north, specifically the Tri-State Area.  Their southern "twang" is only an extra step that makes them seem so much nicer, moving the traditional "You're Welcome" to a "Why you're so welcome, miss!"

    One of the greatest things that happened while in the south occurred in Savannah, Georgia on St. Patrick's Day.  As I wrote previously in another post, St. Patrick's Day in Savannah is the second biggest St. Patty's Day parade in America, so the imagination can only stretch to believe just how crazy the streets of this city get.  In desperation, my friends and I were looking for a cheap taxi to get from our hotel to the parade, and bumped into this man driving his own car titled "the Shamrock Shuttle."

    Jay, the driver, was driving around the city waiting for kids and tourists alike to flag him down for a ride.  The traditional taxi was costing about $40 each way, while he was only charging $10 - which was such an incredible steal, we couldn't pass up getting in the car with this stranger.  Not only did he get us there and back safely, he gave us mini tours - taking us pass Forsyth Park

    Southern Hospitality is Not Just a Myth!



    ...and spots where scenes from the movie Forrest Gump were filmed (picture of the park and distant bench here).

    Southern Hospitality is Not Just a Myth!

    He told us of all the hot spots in Savannah where tourists and young adults would be.

    Now when was the last time you had a polite taxi driver in New York City?

    Along with being the best tour guide I'd ever had, he called me several times that night to make sure that our group of five were all together and safe, being that the streets grew in its craziness as the sun began to set.  Once it was all said and done, he even called and thanked us for our patronage and said that he "hoped to see ya'll soon."

    If he wasn't the perfect example of a southern gentleman, then I don't know what is!

    Have you ever gone on vacation to find that a popular belief about that place was actually true?  Have you ever wanted to go back somewhere just based on how the people acted?

Comments (17)

  • JUSTAVAPORHERE@xanga

    I agree, but then again I'm biased. I live in the heart of Tennessee, :)!!!

  • joyouswind@xanga

    I've heard Paris is beautiful. I figured, sure, it might be pretty, but it's still a city, right?

    It's beautiful.

    And I do enjoy the south. Most of my family's from Arkansas and Texas. Strangers are very kind to each other.

  • tigerdauphin@xanga

    Hm... I wonder why our two experiences were so drastically different.

    I think it comes down to... dare I say it? ...R.A.C.E.

    My friend, white, her bf, black, and me, well... Asian, took a road trip down south.  Just hopped in a car and drove.  We stopped by numerous cities along the way, stayed as long or as short as we liked (it was spring break after all).

    People were not nice to us.  Some were cordial I have to admit - but most... eh.  Someone even said (w/ disdain) that we're like "the walking United Nations."

    Southern hospitality?  Overrated.  Maybe if I was in an area full of Asians, it would have been.  Just like if my friend (black) was in areas with more blacks, and if my friend went by herself or with other white people, it would have been different.

    I was quite shocked that in today's day and age - racism still exists in the big cities!!!

  • FunnymanGeorge_is_a_GIRL@xanga

    And THAT is why I love the South so very much! Hospitality is still hospitable and people say things like "excuse me" "hello" and "how do you do" --!

  • echois23@xanga

    Thank you and you are right. I think sometimes that politeness and hospitality are ingrained in our southern souls from birth. Whenever I stay at the farm in Illinois and spend a lot of time in Peoria and Pekin areas I really start to miss my southern comfort. I am currently stuck on a farm here. People here can be nice too.... it's just that they do it without all the charm and grandiose flourishes I grew up on. They also make fun of my accent non-stop.......

  • freeforming@xanga

    YES! In fact I just made a post about it!


    New York is pretty much exactly as it is depicted in the movies....which is why I am always SO pleased to get back to my Texas home.


    Great post!

  • SoHoian_NightOwl@xanga

    it's true :) one of my guy friends is from the south and he's just amazing.
     x

  • quiet_strength@revelife

    i have not had such lovely experiences in Georgia... there are certain places that are more friendly than others I suppose, but there are a lot of southern areas that are really wary and almost rude to outsiders. Just like there are places in Texas where everyone opens doors, is polite, attentive...and others I wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole. I have been all over the south numerous times and I can tell you there is no consistency.

  • dannyb0y@xanga

    I'd have to object to the NY stereotype. I have met some nice cab drivers here. You're bound to run into jerks anywhere you go but the likelihood that you run into them goes up in NY since you run into way more people than you would anywhere else in the U.S.

  • musinuite@xanga

    @tigerdauphin@xanga - That's unfortunate. My boyfriend and I have never had anything but good, hospitable experiences here in Georgia; I'm white, he's Japanese. 

  • black_lie@xanga

    Hey, I've run into perfectly nice people in New York. 

  • Faith14@xanga

    hahah Southern Hospitality only applies to non-minorities...-_-.

  • thepanged1@xanga

    for anyone...minorities or otherwise...if you are in the "bad" part of town, whichever town it may be, you are more likely to encounter rude, obnoxious, mean or even racist individuals.  but i know where i live, and it is definitely in the "deep south", there are many minorities and non-minorities peacefully and happily co-existing, and dare i say even dating, marrying, and procreating together

  • lissalinn@xanga

    I think it just depends on where you are. I'm from a small town and sometimes there's no southern hospitality whatsoever then other times there's too much.

  • x__RainOnHerParade@xanga

    I've lived in Georgia my whole life so perhaps I'm jaded, but while I do love the air of southern hospitality, I've also seen the rudest rednecks anywhere.


    I'm glad you had such a great experience though! Southern people really can be super nice, just don't cross paths with the wrong redneck. :)

  • pillowpixies@xanga
  • thewindycity@xanga

    all these people complaining about New Yorkers being rude...
    they have nothing on Boston...
    that city probably has more a-holes per sq mile than NYC

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